Thanks Sherlock. I hate to admit this, but even as I was realizing this I didn't carry it over to the LLs. Just making a mental note of what he likes, but now I realize it was/is an even bigger piece of the puzzle.
Steve, it was a good weekend, for the first time in about 15 months, the pit in my stomach wasn't there. I'm starting to believe this could be real and better than before. We talked last night and it was when he said he was thinking about a D in Nov 02, it was like a frying pan over my head--I need to change, things are going right and i want them to, he didn't get that frying pan over his head until he moved out and realized what he was missing and he wanted the good times back.
Still so much work to do, but as the theme of piecing seems to have become, I'm going to keep on swimming.....