I don't want to be first, per se. I want US to be first. I don't want him to love me more or always let me have my way. I just want a mate who respects the marriage and makes sure the other people in his life understand that he and I are together, in a circle of marriage, and they are outside of that, in their own lives.
I love how you put that! That's exactly what I want and could never figure out how to say it. I'm not a princess; I just want us to be a team. It's not that I don't like his friends, but they're not in our "circle of marriage".
M36 XH34 M-5 T7 4/11 H confused 5/11 ILYB 6/11 OW discovered 7/11 I move out, OW over 5/12-OW2,done->new EA, but H wont file 9/12 H "best bf ever" to EA/OW3 3/13 H/OW break up H files 4/13 D 6/18/13