BTW, I forgot to add...

I am not afraid or unwilling to go back to work ASAP. I have always done so and was the sole source of income in our M for two years while H tried to get his business off the ground.

So I will do so. I don't want to sound like I will just sit at home and expect H to solve everything. I just want to first talk to a lawyer to find out the ramifications of it in our future D. My H is very, very ademant on giving me as little as possible in child support and no alimony...

My question is really more about the D process and hiring a lawyer now...

thanks again!


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D