We had a great weekend. Nice to have the house just to ourselves, we painted, among other things (continue to use your imagination). Saturday night we went out for dinner and then to another place for pints. Had fun and laughed a lot. His smile finally reached his eyes, I told him that.
A few small things came up, one with his B and my feelings about them and this (he said they were open minded about him leaving, as oposed to my sister), Ellie's words of get the chip off my shoulder and the adage, do I want to be right or happy floated through my mind and I tried to see this though his POV. Another was a simple thing, but he made a peace offering later and that was real nice.
He brought up R talks a lot, and we talked about how good the weekend was, doing mundane things together and having fun.
Then I managed to get the flu Sunday night and he took a 1/2 day Monday to come home and watch the kids for me so I could sleep. I told him today that he was up for H of the year award. He later emailed me if I needed anything else as he wanted that award.
So all good, learned he likes to hear that he is appreciated and thanked for the tasks he does and things he says. I think he needs as much reassurance from me as I need from him.
Tomorrow is when he has invited me to his T session.
