Advice,
Based on the L meeting yesterday, I was encouraged to document everything (financial, time away from the home / time with kids).

She had encouraged me to remove the W from my credit card. I had added her to it simply to increase her credit (she had to delcare bankruptcy at the time of her first divorce). A few weeks ago, when we were discussing our finances, I told her that I wanted to, and she responded, "what if there's an emergency?" I said, "get your own credit card" (nicely that is).

So anyways, thoughts on that, as well as other non utility various joint accounts (eg amazon, paypal).

What is the DB protocol around here for that stuff? 8)