Raising kids is TOUGH, truly the hardest job there is. All we can do as parents is to do our best - but we are not perfect. And that's okay.
I have had my meltdown days. I understand the many emotions. I would feel guilt for losing my cool with the kids and not being patient with them. Then I would be angry that H dumped everything on me, hey, they are his kids too!
But once the dust settles and our emotions steady, clear thinking comes back. I always end up thinking how lucky I am to have my wonderful children. When our H's aren't around, it is definitely their loss.
Hang in there, you are doing a terrific job. Take the bad days in stride, take a deep breath when they are over. Tomorrow is always a new day
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."
