[quote=25yearsmlc][quote=KevinScotland]Your reply is the exact reason I asked the question so thanks. To explain more. Am like the rest of the humans on the planet and I like contact with other people. And as shallow as it seems I like women. Am not meaning sex but more dinner or going to a bar or movie with a female. Mainly though it's to GAL and appear to be moving on. I'd hope that my wife would think " hold on, someone else likes my husband. Someone else sees him as the best choice, I don't know if I want him with someone else, he might be happy."
this is all about you. Nothing about OW's feelings. Did you read what I wrote to you?
Am told one minute "stop focusing on your wife and what she's doing and thinking and to focus on me and GAL". As far as I see it going on making friends (male or female) is part of the GAL idea.
Read the first chapters online.
Kevin.
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