you will get through this too. Stay calm. i know this is a kick in the gut. i feel it with you. remember though, in terms of where YOU are, YOU are in a good place. you have a started a new life, your kids are happy...this is simply a change in proximity for now.
love you jks...
TPS Me: 44 H: 42 M14 T17 S10 D7 10/10 H moves out after death of his father-same month 21/04/12 H is 'DONE' 04/05/12 OW/PA confirmed (rumors from 2010) July '14 H ends affair May '15 H moves back home