Yes, Jackie, thank you, it does help. I am going to try to go back and read your threads.
I wonder if time is the big healer, though. The fact that your H was away from you and still unhappy. That I think must cause them to think in some respects... it wasn't her...
I hope that is the case with my sitch... I am trying to let my H heal and hope that he will figure it out for himself.
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.