How do I balance our time apart with our time together?

This is a question I have seen asked in other threads also, but have yet to see answered. On one hand, I don't want to put pressure on her for us to do things together, on the other I figure if I pull away too much it will weaken our connection. Since she wants me to move on without her, it seems if I pull away too much it may send the wrong message. I don't want her to think I've given up on us. Or do I? Thanks.


M: A really long time.
Crisis: 5 years.
She's still worth it.

Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl