[quote=KevinScotland]Your reply is the exact reason I asked the question so thanks.

To explain more. Am like the rest of the humans on the planet and I like contact with other people. And as shallow as it seems I like women. Am not meaning sex but more dinner or going to a bar or movie with a female. Mainly though it's to GAL and appear to be moving on. I'd hope that my wife would think " hold on, someone else likes my husband. Someone else sees him as the best choice, I don't know if I want him with someone else, he might be happy."


this is all about you. Nothing about OW's feelings. Did you read what I wrote to you?


From my experience it does seem to me there's one set of rules for her and another set for me.

yes, there are different rules. She is not here posting to save the m, you are. So there are different expectations. Deal with it. It's not fair.

We know it's not fair.

You may think your sitch is SO UNFAIR and I'd say, "go to Africa and tell me about fair."

make sense?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change