If your h has a fantasy about how great his life will be once he is d and he can be with the swooning OW, he will not wake up over night but you are doing everything right - listening, validating and doing stuff for yourself. When he is ready to wake up he will see a beautiful and self confident woman and mother of his child (that does count)
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13
