No I get it I was just saying it is hard sometimes. I have been running and working out which is a huge destresser and something I enjoy to do. I have also started a second job to make some extra money so I can have money to get a hobby, like getting back into karate. I have also started hanging out with friends and my brother who was in town from the navy this week. The kids also keep me occupied.
As for her mom she is unemployed and is our stay in nanny. My wife does not ask her to watch them on her own at night because she feels bad for her cause she works like a dog. As for the EA I am pretty sure it was all in my head.
Daughter went to the hospital last night but was alright and my son was puking so I came over to help after my second job. While she was taking a bath I made sure it was in my head. Does not have his phone number nor has she talked to anyone other than her girl friends. She also told me today she has been acting cold and distant because every time she opens up and acts normal I follow it up with talks of dates or counseling. I told her I understand why you feel that way and apologized and told her it will not happen again and that I was wrong to pressure her.
My second coaching session with Laurie is tomorrow so we will see how that goes.
M:30 W:31 D:6&1 S:3 Married 9 years 8/8/2012 ILYBNILWY Bomb Dropped: July 2012 Legally Separated: 8/3/2012