KG I don't know where you live but please check out that website "Essential Experience" I think I've mentioned to you.
Any personal growth workshop for you to work on those goals you just outlined, might be a wonderful gift you give yourself and your loved ones, now. (Since I have gone to a few different ones and can vouch for "EE", I mention it.)
OTherwise your plan is sound. Be kind to yourself. You do deserve it.
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