One of my friends gave me a sheet with a couple of rules:
1. Do not try to have sex. 2. Do what she likes 3. I don't remember.
I did it for a while and it made it ALL about her, took alot out of me. Sometimes they are just gone.
It's like the dog chasing his own tail. They think that they are loving you too much and not loving themself, and pull back, and that pull back becomes infinate as they pull away.
With the gap left behind they fill it with the OM/OW. They are right back at square one.
