Detaching will be a lifesaver for you,this is the hardest thing I have ever gone thru. I started seeing my husband descend into MLC a few months before his mom's death, I just didn't know what to look for,since coming here all the signs were there. God has been there for me since day one and still is, having faith in something or someone you have never seen is a hard thing to do but he is real..... I have given it to God and he has given me peace, but one more thing that worked for me....that was forgiving him and her... It was a hard thing to do as well but not until I truly did I had no peace in my heart.... It was hard forgiving her but who knows what lies he told her,it's not all her fault it does take two to tango..... Hope this helps, seek God's will for your life and hand it over to him...as they say on this board ...LET GO AND LET GOD Blessing s to you
