It is much easier to see thier garbage once you clean up your own.
Hang in there.
My H is doing the same thing with me. He is spending thousands!! on trips etc and mad it me for spending money on our daughters. Ignore, record and protect yourself
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13