For one thing it doesn't seem like your R is the problem. I mean if it were, your W would not be reaching out to you like that. Trust me. She'd avoid you like the plague and talk to you as if you were the worst person on earth.
There's some other issue here or it could very well be physical. Just be there for her and nurture and intensify the good feelings while diminishing the dark ones.
Maybe start a new type of adventure together. Or some activity which has a goal attached to it. If you give her something to focus on, it could be a good way to get her mind off of things.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.