More journaling, I've got a bunch of posts that are not showing up yet because of moderation so I hope I'm not repeating myself.

W and I exchanged some emails about the kids, all 3 have events that all hit on the same Saturday. Unfortunately it's the same day as a yearly R/C fly-in I like to go to. My W emailed this (in part):

"I think you should plan to go to both fly in events. You don't do that much for yourself, they are only once a year and I know you enjoy them."

I'm just throwing this out there because there were a couple of responses to my first post that people may have had the impression that I immerse myself in the hobbies, I tried explaining that it's not as bad as I may have made it sound and hopefully this email will clarify that W doesn't think I'm being selfish regarding the hobbies. She's never complained about it, and this isn't the first time she's said I don't do much for myself. Maybe she's telling me to GAL, LOL!

BTW I still chose not to go to the fly-in and to go to the kids' events instead.

W is still coming by my house every evening and basically just sleeping at her house. It's a little odd, I thought she was really anxious to strike out in her new, independent, free-wheeling life of total happiness; but instead she seems content to come "home" as usual and just sleep somewhere else. I'm sure this will change once she gets completely moved, but she doesn't seem to be in a hurry.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57