Man I have been reading your sitch..it sounds painful...a pain I will soon be expierencing sigh...my w has not told me about OM but i am waiting for her to...so far she denies everything...it is good that she has told you...now you can rebuild and see that she is a bit out of control. I think a lot of W are addicted to that initial rush of a new relationship but what happens when that burns out? She will be wondering what happened did i make a huge mistake....then if she sees you strong and Independent she will realize that she did...you may not want her back...
