Great to hear that your H is home and that he's seeing a T to boot! He must be a very good man to come to you and tell you that he spent 2003 tearing you apart and wants to spend 2004 putting your M together, I am speechless.
Everyone above has made excellent points but I would like to add one more. If he is DBing now or at least reading the books, remember he is backsliding. If he is anything like me, you are going to be backsliding for quite a while.
Keep your chin up and your back straight, you have control of the R now. Make him see what he is missing, act as if. Like I told Nik, dump the kids on him one night and go out with the girls. Tell him you need a break from the "Year from hell".
Keep posting and good luck, we are all pulling for you.
Berto
I believe that dreams are more powerful than facts,that laughter is the only cure for grief. And I believe that love is stronger than death
