Hey Jackie,

YOu mentioned that your H talked about the DB book. Does he know that you know about the book yourself?

If not, then tell him that you decided to read it so you can work together as he suggested. If you can refer to the principles of DB in general terms, as it applies to your R, I bet it will engage him in the process more.

Say "I sense that we are ______, but from what I read in DB, this is to be expected and ______ is what they suggest that we do isn't it? Do you think he would be open to that?

Just a thought.

You can do this. You've got him home (at least more often than not) so slow the pace down, keep the patience up and don't stress about the small stuff.

Take a deep breath...relax....



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