But, one would think that by the very nature of the "need", he would give it a little more importance. He has evenings available.
We make time for the things that are important to us. I think he just doesn't get it. I don't know if he ever will.
I'll be very interested to see how you respond to this. Technically, it's not nearly as important in your case that he address it at this point, timely or otherwise, because you're already looking the other way (dropping the rope) though it should be important to him for that very reason. So you can keep on keeping on without his lack of response really impacting your stride in any way. It will be different though if you stop your progress and wait for him every time he says he will do something. And then he doesn't do it.
I'm curious because I feel like you're stepping into my zone now. It's virtually scripted that LBS's often eventually become the WAS. This thread is indicative of your reaching that point. Also scripted, now your WAS is looking back and noticing, thinking he might not want it afterall, blah-blah-blah.
This is the part that I need to see. Now that you've stepped away enough to know what you want in a S, and you're not sure your H has the capacity to be that person, and he's adding fuel to the fire by not responding in a timely manner, what next? How long do you wait for his response until it's too little, too late? How do you save your M when you're now the WAS and your H is not responding to your stated needs in order to help save it? When the only thing you have to look forward to if you go back to your M is more of what you had before, but now that's just not good enough?
