I am not sure a Judge would give me full custody without proof also Montana is a no fault divorce state. I agree with you sandi, when I was laying in bed trying to fall asleep at 2 in the morning..I started analyzing her past relationships; she has made a jump to a new man from everyone for the last 23 years. I should have known better but I was sucked in by her siren song. She is very beautiful- she used to be a model- so she is addicted to men hitting on her but now she is 40 and thinks she is approaching perimenopause she still turns heads but has to look around to see if she is...kinda sad in a way. Anyway I am confused to as what to do now. I am detaching and trying to go dark but I also want to find out if there is another M or am I paranoid; something she has accused me of a lot. I have turned into this obsessed detective, driving by her house, checking phone records etc....I know this is all the wrong stuff to do, it feels like an addiction though. I have to stop. My D(11) and D(6) really want her to come back and say every day mom is coming back.....but I am not so sure.
