How do I balance our time apart with our time together?
This is a question I have seen asked in other threads also, but have yet to see answered. On one hand, I don't want to put pressure on her for us to do things together, on the other I figure if I pull away too much it will weaken our connection. Since she wants me to move on without her, it seems if I pull away too much it may send the wrong message. I don't want her to think I've given up on us. Or do I?
I'm planning a road trip to the Rock n roll hall of fame. It's a 7 hour drive from my home. I'm planning to stay two nights there, just me and my thoughts. This will also allow her some time alone at home.
I have not mentioned anything about it to her yet, I figure telling her at the last minute will add to the surprise and mystery. Your thoughts?
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
