I'm sure she does love you and the girls but she has to be a mother to her children and what you have going on is monumental. I think she's right to focus on what she needs to do, as painful as that is for you and your girls.

And it is probably breaking her heart but if she can't do it, she can't.

Focus on what you have to do. With the support your girls need it would be very difficult to maintain any R right now. Be there for them, they are in dire need of you.

Take care of yourself.


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss