IH Separation-continuing to grow as we grow apart

[breakdownbill]

Thanks for the advice Cutter

I think I need to do some more research into where I stand legally with all of this in terms of our joint mortgage, accounts and debts before I make a decision as to what will be the best for me.

I'm not just thinking of myself I am also thinking about my kids - because there will be so much time spent away from the home this year with my studies and placements, that realistically I wouldn't offer my kids the stability they need. This would be the case until June at least.

I think the best thing for me to do right now, would be to get some independent advice (financial & legal) to inform a really big decision.

If the circumstances, timing was different & I had qualified - was on a salary and a working pattern that matched my kids I know that I would be the best option in terms of supporting my kids in the family home.

Right now, my circumstances are a reality that need to be considered, because my children's welfare is the most important thing to me.

I have to be honest with myself and look at the bigger picture, a house is just bricks & stuff - it's my kids that makes it a home.

I'm not saying I'm going to do this or that, I'm saying that ultimately their needs come before mine & I need to research what I can & can't feasibly and legaly do before I decide what is best here.

You've got my back & I really appreciate you looking out for me.

Bill