MrBond, I hear you, but my question to you is, after she left, where you able to reconcile? Or did she hold that against you? The tension between my w and I was caused by both of us in the past, but now I have calmed down, so we shall see how that affects us in the future. What do you mean " she'll be able to do whatever she wants while you're left out high and dry." I don't understand what this means? She's gonna work and she's gonna take care of the kids. What else will she do? The separation is supposed to give her space and time to think through this and see if she really wants out or if she might want to reconcile. The thing that I have to accept is that I can't control her, or how she feels. I can only respect and honor her and take care of myself.


Me:46 W:40
M:10 T:17
D:9 S:6
BD:12/11
ILYBINILWY:8/12
Served 2/13
I moved out 2/13
I moved back 6/13
W moved out 9/13