sounds like the beginning of detaching. Or a wacky day. But detachment is not a linear process, btw.

It will do two things, ideally. You'll feel better and move forward,

and your r with her will be less painful. SHE MAY notice and mind the detachment and move towards you, but OTOH, she may feel more at ease with it b/c of less pressure from you. So what?

SHE is not the reason you detach, you are.

Keep that in mind.

Arsene, You did see a L for expats right? So, you are positive if you two divorce, that your w gets to decide custody?


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change