Wow, I actually agree with CB on this. Maybe we're not that far apart as I thought we were after all.

I'd say she's the one who wants to leave and is unwilling to work on the M, that's her decision. It has nothing to do with you and you shouldn't finance it either.

I'm sure my W resents the fact that I've got a nice house to live in with D8 while she's sleeping on a mattress on the floor of some boarding house. Tough. It's her choice. Another thing is, when it was time to separate our stuff (car, computer, etc..) i made it clear that these had been purchased by the family, for the whole family. If she wants out of the family, she can go and re-buy that stuff. What we had before is for the family. By her actions, she's already adding an extra financial burden on the family so there is no reason why she should be helped. If she needs it, she can always ask OM.

OK, I admit it. There is still a tiny bit of anger left in me. smile smile


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then