i had a call with my coach today and we talked about how I could re-focus my energies and use these tough times to support and re-connect with my H. My PMA was at an all-time high.
After I hung up, I checked the mail... My H filed for D last Wednesday and the paperwork arrived today.
He then took Friday off work to go on a romantic weekend getaway with OW up in the beautiful Northern CA coast. He posted on Facebook how it was time to "take out his photographing and painting equipment." (he never once painted in the 20 years I have known him...) On Monday he then went to the Giants game and posted a photo of him smiling in front of Willie Mays' statue. Only to come back on Tuesday to find himself out of a job...
Something about seeing his signature in black and white. It feels so surreal and it just brought back all the pain and hurt.
Me & H: 44 D7, D6, S3 Together: 20y, M: 17y EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10 EA becomes PA: Spring 2011 H filed for D: 09/06/12 D Negotiating began 2/15 OW seemingly gone on 3/15 Still negotiating D
