Pinkalicious!

[DaddyLongShanks]

I bet OW told her H a pack of lies to scare him into applying for that restraining order. You know how she is - master manipulator all the way.

Well - I know it doesn't FEEL this way, but - congratulations on being divorced! Unwanted, but now you are free to build a life on YOUR terms. And I've got the feeling you have the tools now to make that life a fun and adventurous one.

I, too, hope the house sells soon so that you can get out of there - ugh, can't imagine being stuck living with my ex. Any nibbles? If not, does the realtor have any suggestions?

Once you get one of those out of your life, why on earth would you ever do it again?

[job]

Wendy,
I'm sorry you have do find out about your divorce the way you did. I wonder if your xh knows yet?

As for the restraining order, I wouldn't worry too much because it was not granted. However, be prepared if someone should ask you when you applying for positions.

I hope your home sells very quickly so that you can be out from under his presence. Please take care of yourself.

[BeingMe]

Oh, so lucky. I wish I was divorced already. You should have a little celebration. Now you are rid of not only your MLC H, but also OW (one hopes).

Here's to a rosy future. (clinking of champagne glass against ....).

[WenikiTiki]

XH told me that OW said it was on the internet. I searched and finally found it.

OW has been off island since 1 March of this year, the military sends home badly behaving spouses. Her now X didn't make rank and was being serarated. He has been gone since April, I'm guessing. That is when he quit stalking me at yoga. That is why she is so desparate to find a new meal ticket. And a retired colonel working as a GS-15 is a plum!

Yesterday she hacked my computer again, don't know how. She took several files of my photos, they are just gone. Coincidently one of those photos becomes her new facebook profile photo, AND she writes: Hey You! Welcome Back to my page. Happy Anniversary!

This on the anniversary of the death of my sisters H. When we confromted my X he talked to OW and she has some BS story about how it was part of a conversation with a friend. My X has never done FB, so he is believing her crap.

The only FB friends she has are ones she makes up, to write supporting comments on her crazy posts. My sister and I both blocked her and more importantly vowed to never look at her page again.

I told my X I was going to report her for unauthorized use of my photo, which proves she is my hacker. She took it down. And whined to my X about all the mean things my sisters friends are saying about her on FB. Fortunatly I have my photoos backed up to a hard drive.

I'm off for a practice SUP run. I am developing a new method. SUP = Sitting Upon Postier. I am getting better at standing more, bur when it gets windy it is hard!

[kml]

She is soooooo uber-creepy, cannot believe your ex is sticking with her still. I hope for your sake he dumps her for some new (and SANER) woman soon. She's just pathological.

[labug]

Very creepy

[WenikiTiki]

As of today I have done 4 SUP runs in the past 5 days. It is good to be outside on the water. I used to be afraid of getting too far away from the shore. I now know how strong I am and feel confident about my abilities.

It was super windy and there wasn't a soul on the beach or in the water at Chinaman's Hat. The life guards weren't even on duty yet. It was interesting. I read that doing stuff out in nature is a good way to beat depression.

One of my friends got toxemia, had her baby early (31 weeks) and 5 days later they still can't get her blood pressure under control. Today they moved her to the ICU. She can't have visitors, and I feel so helpless. And it brings back horrible memories.

I had toxemia with both my pregnancies. First time bad, second time worst. I had a very bad delivery both times. The second time is most likely when I had a heart attack that was diagianosed about 5 years ago. The doctor told me that my echocardiogram showed damage from a previous haert attack. I also had to have a hysterectomy when I was 31, with what they pleasantly call "Anterior and posterior repairs" to fix damage from the awful delivery. The doctor actually did a handstand on my stomach to save my son.

Anyway I was trying to talk to my best friend about this and she told me she didn't want to talk about it or think about it. And it made me mad. When all that happened with my horrible delivery my XH told my mom everything was fine. (My son was still in distress and it wasn't fine.)

So where I am going with this is I realize I surround myself with emotionally unavailable people and then puzzle over why they treat me the way they do. I believe that we can talk about bad things that happened. We don't have to say stuck on them, but it would be nice to acknowledge that they happened.

I was talking with my IC today about how my friends toxemia brought up my feelings. And ammusingly I told XH this evening that all these years later I was puzzling over him telling my mom everything was okay when it wasn't. And as I was saying it to him I realized he was just being himself and he will probably never change. He can't talk about tough things.

[BeingMe]

Yeah, my H doesn't like to talk about emotional things either. I think he's rather be whipped or something than talk about things pertaining to our M. Ah well.

Hey, you are doing awesome with the SUP thingie.

[Cadet]

Hey

This is not a post about anything in particular but to see if the website is working.

Apparently it is.

[WenikiTiki]

I keep trying to post. My computer, modem or router is messed up.

I finished 8th out of 12 in the novice women all ages division. I had a great time of just under 30 minutes. My practice runs paid off, as I picked a slightly different route around Chinamans Hat and knew what to expect.

My emotions continue to rollercoaster, I just keep trying to ride them out!

I hope everyone had a nice weekend!