I just never wanted you to assume that DBing meant settling for less...for the rest of your life.
It's not about that. It can be about accepting less for awhile...my fear was that you were one of the ones that got stuck and somehow infered that as long as you were married you were happy in your miserabliness. : )
I am glad that it doesn't seem to be the case.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK