Yeah...no R talks, unless she brings them up and if she does...well...
It's like a minefield.
If she doesn't want to talk? Don't even tell her about your day.
Dettaching just isn't about not communicating, to me it was also about not allowing their day...good or bad, their mood, good or bad to impact me. Not unless it was good and she wanted to include me.
Why wouldn't a person want to be impacted by their spouses good mood? Lets say she is in a great mood because she is going to go out....without you. Crappy example but I made my point.
Their mood and day...simply doesn't impact you if it will impact you negatively.
Dettach from the drama not of your making.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
