You mentioned that she's a psychologist. Does she understand that men in general need physical affection to show worth? Does she know that's one of your basic needs? It's more a matter of her lack of effort.

Have you tried flirting with her and just having fun? Maybe you have to take a stronger initiative.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER