Divorced #5. And I think Im getting it..

[MrBond]

I would talk to your XH about it first just to show you're on the up and up. Just tell him that you want him to trust you, but because you're now D'd, there's no reason to have the software on there. That you've changed and are now trustworthy, so it's up to him to believe it or not.

That you two need to get over the past and start anew.