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[newman7977]

Just some thoughts on detaching:

From the readings here that I gather. "lovingly detach=no spite, no anger, revenge".

Seem simple but hard to put into actions.

So in my sitch, I go in the house I say "hi W, how's your day? Tell her my day" treat her like a friend or co worker? Is detaching, putting aside the loving feelings?

I then proceed with the kids and love them as a father would love heir children. Living in the same roof, how you detach and not seem you gave up on the R? Weekends I will be with W and family all day.

We normally go to the mall, eat out on weekends, do I keep doing that but the only difference not talk about R With the W? Am I detaching correctly?

Any thoughts?

Newman