Just don't deceive yourself. Here on the board, we've read all kind of reasons behind the LBH doing things. Sometimes he can't see what he's really doing, which is trying to cause a particular response. I'm just saying that it appears that you are using the anniversary to pressure her to have dinner with you, and you know that a book of photos from the past years should draw out some type of emotion. Perhaps I misuderstood when you said how painful it would be looking at those "with" your W.
There's more to this than two adults having dinner, and you know it. Just be real with yourself. That's all. I'm not here to give you a hard time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
