Bill if we knew each other in the alt. We would be friends. So I was speaking to you one friend to another.
Thanks for that, I needed it and feel like we'd have fun hanging out in that alt world
I really don't know why I doubted myself and my plans, they were a moment of weakness and it's a lot simpler for me now.
As hard as that talk was last night with my W and knowing that it's a huge setback in terms of any possible R, I'm actually taking some positives out of it.
Instead of wondering what is going on with my W, I now know exactly where I stand.
I gave my W a choice to work on our M and stop the contact with OM and she said she couldn't do it.
My W asked for a trial separation and I agreed that it was best if we weren't together if nothing is going to change on her stance.
Now it's more of a practical exercise of working out money and logistic as to how we are going to make this separation financially possible. In the short term I might recommend splitting our time in the house with the kids, maybe she stays 4 nights and I do 3 nights with the kids.
This way the kids aren't uprooted and they still get to spend time with both of us, this would be until I could afford a place big enough for the kids to stay.
Nice tip on the calendar, i'll have to do that with my uni work
Bill
Me 34 W 32 D 9 S 6 M: 9 years T: 12 Bomb: 02/11/12 EA/PA: 12/17/11 - ongoing Moved out: Oct 2012 Joint Filed for D: 2/11/13
