Divorced #5. And I think Im getting it..

[Mrs D]

Here is a question for Bond, KD, Carnac - whomever..
Just got off the phone with a GF of mine. She in fact did call X last night and told him that he needed to make C come first. Nothing about him hiring a sitter last weekend, etc. That information was in fact pulled from my text messages that he has software to read.

So the question is - should I take my phone to US Cellular to have them wipe my phone clean of the software - because he knows exactly who it is that I talk to, where Im at, etc. My GF think that if I did that then he would be questioning where I am, what Im doing, etc faster than what he is now cause he has the access. I think I should keep it on because I want him to be able to trust me. And if that is one way to gain trust, Id rather it stay on my phone. Thoughts?