Hi, I am struggling with the concept of detaching. Will not get dr delivered for a few weeks yet! I am emotionally detaching and GAL, however, wife talking to me like everything is ok. She even suggested a takeaway and a film together last night. I accepted but this is all getting weird. This am when I was leavin for work she asked what I wanted for tea and it seems like we are continuing to be married but not! I am going to the gym, meetin friends etc during the evenings, she is too, but when we are at home everything seems normal except for the intimacy! She is starting all the conversation too. Is this normal? Shld we not be made at each other? V confused and cannot wait until the book gets delivered! Anyone any advice please.