I need some help! My wife told me last night that she wants a divorce and there is absolutely nothing that can change her mind. We have two beautiful children. Son and daughter, 5 and 3.

Things have not been good for quite some time, but I DON'T want things to end. There is so much in Michele's chapter one that rings true in our regard. She has a sister that is driving a lot of this I think. I think I have anger management issues, and I feel a lot of regret that it has taken it's toll with us. There no affair, this is due to horrible communication. I'm very scared I'm going to lose everything. I'm not talking about material goods, I'm talking about our family. I don't want this to end. I don't want to fail at this.

What do I do?