Thanks, SS. I am trying to focus on me. Since part of H's problem with me is that I am not interested in his activities, I am trying to show some interest. But we also have the pursue/pushing away issue as well. I guess it is a delicate line to follow.
I am in the process of trying to find new clothes and shoes. The problem is becoming that he's spent so much, there is not a lot left for me.
I am in the middle of sending him an email with the dates that I will need him to take care of our D. I know of one date that will probably be a conflict, so we will see what happens.
M44 H57 D17 (special needs) M 18 yrs Bomb 7/2/12 Still living together