Please, I can use some help with finding a therapist in the Bay Area of California. I called the DB telephone hoteline and you don't have referrals to that area. I searched the web for solution-based, solution-focused, and brief therapy, and found mostly resources for counselors, not clients. So I'm hoping someone on the message boards will have a recommendation!
I've had a telephone consultation with a coach and my H is willing to try therapy (last time I asked, that is...) I think I'd take Michele's advice and have us each see the therapist separately, since couples counselling didn't help us before, and we're not in agreement about being in or out of the marriage.
Thanks, Earthbride
I found an old thread (When Therapy Hurts) and many people were asking a similar question for their neck of the woods. So I hope someone will answer!