no talk rule. My H follows the same idea in his family. Which is why he kept all his problems inside and went bezerk!

Sweety you are so fortunate to have such an insightful MIL! I'm soo jealous. My MIL is great too but very very different about relationship advice. Her thing is, lie to avoid hurting the person, don't show any negative feelings or express them, try to take care of everyone before yourself (*now you know why H spiraled into oblivion!)

Have a good night hun and get lot's of rest ;-)
Oh n eat 2 cookies and call me in the morning! LOL!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017