On Saturday, my wife came to me and told me she wants a divorce. She stated that she was not happy, had not been happy for a long time, and that she was tired of pretending and working so hard at our relationship. In the past we had had some serious conversations about our lives together, the last one was back in mid-July, and she told me that I needed some counseling to be a better husband and to become more of the man she wanted me to be. Over the years we have argued, and both mentioned marraige counseling, yet neither of us had followed through with it. I was the only one working for the first 8 years of our marraige and I would always tell here to find out about it and that I would go. Now she says she waited for me to do it to see if it was really important to me. Before Saturdey, on Thursday evening, we had a long talk and i called Friday morning and arranged a counseling session for us, and here response was "So?" She says it is too late, she says she loves me, but she is not "in" love with me the way she should be. I love me wife completely, even after all the hurt she has put me through the past few days. Right now, we are staying in the same house, I in the extra bedroom, her in "our" room and our daughter (8) in her room. At first she asked me to leave, but i told her no I too wanted to be here for our daughter.
