Are you going to show the note to H? I probably would if it was me...I'd want to see his reaction and also show him what she said. I'd be nice about it and simply show it to him...but maybe that's too hard to do and if you are making progress with him maybe it isn't worth any risk. I just think putting it out in the open might help.
Hang in there...you are creating your own path and one where you won't have any regrets over not trying!
Thanks for stopping by Nblost!
I have been told not to show the message to my H. I will say I'd be interested to see how he reacts too. I think it could go both ways: he's mad that she contacted me, or he gets mad at me for bringing her up in conversation yet again.
