About to separate....

[dorightman]

Cadet, why did you say DO NOT MOVE OUT? The way my w puts it, I have no other option. If I don't, the tension between us keeps getting higher, she gets super stressed out and angry, this effects the kids and me. She says the only chance I have at getting her back is to respect and honor her wishes for a separation. The longer I hold off, the worse things seem to get between us. She threatened to take the kids and move out herself if I didn't. Thats how bad it is. So, I feel like theres no other option, and at least she'll be a little softer with me from now on. It's a three month separation and in that time we will spend time together as a family, and her and I will go to therapy once a week. So, I will still see her and my kids, and hopefully the extreme tension will go away. She will get the space she needs, and I won't have to feel lonely while Im in the same house as my w, and the kids won't feel the negative vibes. I dunno, it's all kinda confusing. At least for the moment, she has softened and that will make it easier for me to not do something stupid again!