best and worse thing to ever go through

[eyesopen]

I would like to share a conversation that happened via a text today between my W and I.

W "Being at the house today has made me very sad. I miss it here. I miss you too. I can not say anything beyond that. And I do not want to lead you to believe that there is any hope since I myself think the way is divorce. But I thought you should know."

Me "I do miss you too, and this has helped me understand the meaning of unconditional. I would like to stay together, but whatever you choose to do, I will support you."

W " I need to feel like I am completely self supporting and happy on my own before you or anyone else can enhance my happiness. Do you understand? I don't want or expect you to wait around."

Me "I do understand, and my life is not going to stop because of this. It is actually just beginning. You have shown me that I can not stop growing, and I can not take anything in my life for granted. Thank you!"

Any comments, questions, or suggestions would be greatly apprciated.