Turtles, Lists and Toilet Brushes

[scaredsilly]

i agree with vero. wait and consider what he said as script. my H used to take any objection i had as "another reason we can't be together". i finally told him i refuse to walk on eggshells, waiting for something i said to be "another reason".

let your H know that you are surprised he feels that way because you KNOW you've changed and addressed things in a positive way and you are happy with yourself. but he's entitled to his opinion even though you don't agree.

don't be threatened with abandonment when you feel differently than he does.